I am often asked how should someone start writing. They tell me they’ve always wanted to write. They think about a novel. They would love to write for a living. How did I start? When did I decide I liked writing? Many of these are people looking for Step 1, Step 2, Step 3, then VOILA….arrived. They are writers.
I do not remember when I started writing. I just always have. When I wanted to, I did. Did I start writing because I wanted money? Nope. I wrote because I found writing powerful. I submitted knowing that when I did, I was making a permanent impression. I could open doors or burn bridges based upon how much effort I put into the words. 
Writing tells the world a lot of things about you, like:
- How intelligent you are
- How creative you are
- How motivated you are
- How professional you are
Writing, honestly, speaks loudly for you without you ever meeting people or saying a word. It’s why you don’t publish, post, or submit without having done a lot of writing, a lot of editing, a lot of thinking about the purpose of the writing, and a lot of study as to who the reader is. Throw a badly written piece out there and you’ve alienated a certain number of people forever.
Actually, writing doesn’t let you hide behind it. Instead, it yells on your behalf, giving away who you are. Writing poorly, submitting prematurely, and publishing quickly will tell certain readers who you are and make them come to conclusions about whether to ever read your work again.
It’s why you patiently write, patiently study how to improve, and take a while to publish. To do so prematurely makes lasting impressions you might not want to make.
Hi, I am someone who always comes back to writing pretty naturally. I sketch out books while not paying attention in church, imagine new characters to avoid feeling anxious, bring a notebook whenever I have a free moment just in case the mood strikes me. Sometimes I jump out of bed and start to write. But I am a veterinarian, and I’ve only read a fraction of the works that I wish I would have read, and I naturally have imposter syndrome. So – I guess my feedback for this, is, I was hoping to read it and go, hey there are no magic steps but you’ve got to try and put yourself out there, instead, I was kind of left with a, hey get back in the closet until you’re ready kind of message – so I guess what do you want the new writer to know to get started and feel like they belong?
Amanda –
No, there are no magic steps. Writing is such a solitary endeavor that the writer becomes their own worst enemy. These days a lot of writers think this is a community thing. Heck, everyone thinks everything is a community sort of endeavor. It doesn’t get more solitary than writing. From me, the advice is going to be to read, study, practice, and make yourself better. “Feel like they belong” doesn’t factor in. Writing is so personal, so intimate, that it naturally isn’t a sharing thing until you’re polished it. Yes, a new writer will have to eventually come out and ask someone to read their work, but not for a while. There is no quick gratification in this field. So, my advice is to write and write, read and read (especially things in your genre), practice and analyze what intrigues you as a writer. Writing is not a right and wrong thing, so you’ll get as much diverse feedback as the people you meet. No two are alike in feedback. The test of a good writer is solitude, practice, and the time it takes to develop voice. So many writers are trying to skip that part, and you can tell in what they publish….too soon. I want a new writer to know that it takes hours and days at a keyboard and in the pages of books to evolve. Facebook groups and such won’t do it. I’m a tough love sort of person, but honestly, I can tell when someone wrote something book length without the slightest thought give to quality and voice.
I’m a retiree from the media. I have always had interest in writing; have written: Corruption, poverty and society, success secrets in the alphabet and Retired but not Tired. Looking a publisher to publish my three books for the benefit of society.
Can you help?
Then start studying publishing. Don’t rush this. Traditional or indie? What about hybrid? And you’ll need an online presence. Slow down and think about it.